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Pain is pain.

You can not compare one to another. There is no way. Both are pain. That is the base, what they have in common.

Each person will experience it completely differently.

To see someone in pain and say how you have seen others, who you judged to be in a worse situation or more pain, is a great injustice. And means you do not comprehend the base of this.

Pain is pain. It is that simple.
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A lesson learned ages ago. It shone it's face again today and thought now was a good time to share.

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~CloakedRanger May 21, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Very true... Some people may go through more pain than others, but some can handle it better too. If someone can deal with pain easily, than it's not much to that person. There are also different kinds of pain, which people handle differently.
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~tainia May 22, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
My point with this is one person can not trash another's pain because they think it isn't enough or qualifies as pain. Like they think they have been through more, or they don't see the level of it.

What happened is I screwed up. I let my little mask slide and told my landlord that I wasn't all bright and chipper and things weren't well. So he told me about seeing this man in a wheelchair, head tilted to the side, obviously some kind of serious trauma and such. And he said "Well I think nothing I feel could be that bad!" He trashed what I was going through at that particular time because obviously it couldn't be real pain.

That is the kind of stuff I'm talking about.
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~CloakedRanger May 22, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah... That's basically what I was trying to say :XD: I hate it when people downplay the pain I'm going through. You know, if it's because I'm "weak", then I accept that. But it doesn't change the fact that it's just as difficult for me to deal with. I don't see how that gives others the right to look down on me. Especially since it's those people, usually haven't gone through much in their life :XD: So the same applies to them, sure... but they have no right to talk, ya know?
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~tainia May 23, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
Oh yeah. I know. I do. And how are you "weak"? Compared to . . . ? It's all bollox. It's just some guilt or total lack of compassion that makes people downplay pain of another. Most of the time, if it was them, they'd raise the roof, make sure EVERYONE knew their pain. It just drives me crazy.

Yeah. Thanks for letting me vent :hug:
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~CloakedRanger May 23, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Yup... Very true.
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~tainia May 23, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
:) people are strange ya know
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~CloakedRanger May 23, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Yup..
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~tainia May 23, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
funny that
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~tainia May 20, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
Thoughts?
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